I’m linking up with the awesome Kate and the other equally talented writers of the Five Minute Friday community.
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You’re checking off lists and checking them twice, preparing for guests, planning menus and braving long lines to ensure we have absolutely everything that you might need to ensure that everyone has the best holiday season.
When do you stop to catch your breath?
Is it in the quiet of the morning, before everyone else wakes up?
I took a walk at lunchtime today because my building was cold and felt I needed the sun on my skin to help me thaw out. As I strolled through Downtown, Port of Spain, all the streets were alive with shoppers.
It seemed like everybody was carrying a bag or in line at a cashier to fill a bag. Most of the faces in the lines had a look of frustration or tiredness and it made my resolve to opt out of gift-buying around this time of year even stronger.
Instead of spending time in lines, I am looking forward to investing quality time with my family and close friends.
As I looked at the tired faces around me or people lugging around huge bags of stuff I had to wonder, why?
For one day? Or in our case here in Trinidad we have a long weekend…so I suppose people are preparing for hordes of family and friends visiting? Maybe?
I get that…but when do you take care of you? When do you make time to cherish yourself during the busyness of the season?
The reason we are sometimes so overwhelmed by everything merry and bright is because we forget that before we can take care of anyone else, we have to take care of ourselves first.
Honor yourself first because you are no good to anyone if you are no good to yourself.
My wish today for all those shoppers and people caught up in the bustle of this festive time of year: Remember to take care of yourself. There is life after the holiday season.
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Short and sweet this week. Happy Everything to my FMF Family! I wish you nothing but the very best! See you in 2015
You nailed it, my friend. May you have a Merry Christ-centered Christmas and a Happy, Holy New Year! And take care of yourself!
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I’m so glad you think that, because so many doubts run through my mind before I hit ‘publish’. All the best you as well! 😀
Doubts are normal … but don’t let them stop you from expressing yourself.
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Thanks for that boost of confidence!
Visiting from fmf 🙂 I agree with this completely. Sometimes (and I think this too), we think it’s selfish to take care of ourselves. But this is our Savior’s birthday and He shared Himself with friends and family, not concerned with perfection,but intimacy. And that’s what we all crave, not hurry. There’s so much pressure and expectation, makes my heart heavy.
I pray you have a Merry Christmas <3
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Thanks Julia. I totally agree He was born in the humblest setting to teach us a lesson that it wasn’t about material stuff. I pray you have a wonderful Christmas as well! All the best.
Stopping by from FMF. Thanks so much for the reminder that we need to take care of ourselves. It’s easy to get so busy that we forget. How much better to make sure we care for ourselves which will make us better able to care for others.